On June 15th, 2010, Jon and I were lounging in my dorm, getting ready to meet some friends for dinner. He was in an exceptionally affectionate mood. A little while before we needed to get in the car and go, he says to me, "Let's take a walk." Sure, why not? It wasn't hot out, we had time, and campus was very quiet, due to it being summer break.
So we meandered around campus, me with my camera taking pictures everywhere. We were slowly walking up around the small building that I work in, and I was chatting with a coworker that was passing by. Jon started to get a bit... pushy, but not in a bad way.
He nudged me up the hill and up some stairs that I knew led in a couple different directions. One little trail off the stairs led to a quiet garden tucked away behind another small building. He pulled me into the garden and I promptly got distracted by some flowers. So, I squatted down on the trail and starting taking pictures. I was facing away from him, and he was suddenly very quiet behind me, while I chattered on about the flowers and how pretty they were and how awful the light was.
After a few minutes, he says, "Why don't you come take pictures of these blue and purple ones over here?" Immediately, I got so excited! I thought, Jon is seeing photos like I do! I quickly turned around and walked over to him.
Hang on... "What are you talking about?? There's no blue flowers! They are pink and purple!"
I practically shoved my face in the flowers, and then almost fell over. There, nestled inside the flowers, was a black box with a ring.
I started sobbing and laughing, all at once.
The rest is a bit of a blur. I know I shot right into his arms, and we hugged and kissed a lot. I know we both said some stuff, but all I remember is staring into his eyes and seeing myself, my future, my love. I never knew how amazing this could feel. With that little ring, our relationship took on a whole new level. Our love for each other strengthened and deepened to become something new, something magical; I never could have imagined it would feel like this, not in my wildest dreams.
Since then, I've felt myself changing and developing as I take on this new role - "fiance," soon to be "wife." Even through the wedding stress and disagreements that we are already having, I know my heart has doubled in size. Rather than making room for him, I've designated him as my sole love, and made room on the side for everything and everyone else. No matter what we go through, I know he'll always be there for me, and I'll always be there for him.
Hosted by Cecily and Serious Krystyn
Wedding update: We've actually gotten a lot done in the past few weeks! It feels like we still have SO MANY decisions, even though I know that we are ahead of schedule.
-We've picked a weekend (although not a set date) - the 3rd weekend in August, 2011.
-We've toured 2 different venues and are touring one more this afternoon.
-We started comparing venue prices, and we are trying not to pick a place until after we see one more, but we already have a favorite.
-We also narrowed down our church choices to 2 - his choice and mine. We are going to push to get my choice, though, because we both want it.
-I've handed off some responsibilities to him - booking a DJ and arranging transportation (limo, shuttle bus, etc.).
-We sat down with my mom and his mom to make a guest list. We are way over our original limit, but both of us have Italian families with plenty of aunts/uncles/cousins/friends that can't be left out. We've topped it where it's at now, so it can only go down.
-We picked our bridal party.... Sort of. He is waffling a bit, but I am set with my girls.
-I created a save-the-date and approved it by him. More on that later!
-I started looking at bridal gown styles and bridesmaid dress styles.
-I picked (and then changed) my colors. I will try to keep the new colors a secret until the save-the-date's go out.
Things we are trying to get done by the end of August:
-Pick a venue - we are actually trying to book a place and pay a deposit within the next 2 weeks, because YES, they are already booking for next August.
-Engagement photos - My dad will be our photographer for this to save some money. We need a photo for the save-the-date's.
-Get the save-the-date's printed so I can either print labels or just hand write the addresses, to send them out in October. (I know this is a bit early, but I am nervous about people planning vacations. Your thoughts?)
-Engagement party - Our moms are jointly planning this party for the 3rd weekend in August, 2010, exactly one year before we will get married.